When you make some determination to go off and attend university somewhere, there ought to be logical process or thinking involved.....but because of the juvenile behavior thinking in the mix....you lose some perception and common sense along the way.
College is not a social club for misfits or loser-attitude teenagers.
College is supposed to make you think....to perceive....to ask questions....to determine facts and balance out an end-result.
College is not a union.
College is usually a place where you end up meeting folks from different walks of life, some with religious convictions....some with far-left-wing convictions....some with communist ideology drilled in.....some with dreams of becoming a forest-ranger....and some with dreams of becoming President of the United States some day.
College is not a clique of borderline misfits, and if you think you've bumped into some....you are in a loser university.
College is where smart professors teach you the art of logic and thinking.
College is not a mob-club that allows students to run the system.
College isn't a place where free-space is restrained.
College is not a semi-professional sport association.
College is generally the only place where you can practice geometric equations, lab experiments, debate skills....screw-up....and learn from your mistakes without any harm.
College is not a place where attendance means success in life.
College is a place where you could bump into a Chinese gal, a British-eventually-to-become-a-Lord, an alcoholic Scot, a flirtatious Swedish gal, an Einstein-like Japanese guy, an migrant from Libya, and a mentally insane German....all in one single day.
College is not a safe playground where you play silly games all day.
College is supposed to be a dividing line about maturity, acceptance of logic, a taste of debate, and an open door to knowledge.
College isn't a thug or riot-training environment.
At the end of this period of attendance....you should have learned something and discovered a wide expanse of knowledge. You ought to be able to listen to arguments and find points to agree or disagree. If this isn't your situation? Fine, get an occupation and move on in life.