Thursday, 9 October 2025

101 Things That People Seem To Be Fragile About

Trump, Conservatives, 

Rejection in romantic relationships

Failure at work or school

Loss of a loved one (death or estrangement)

Financial instability or poverty

Social isolation or loneliness

Public humiliation or embarrassment

Bullying (in-person or online), fat-shaming, 

Job loss or unemployment

Chronic stress from overwork

Divorce or breakup

Physical or emotional abuse

Childhood neglect or trauma

Discrimination based on race, gender, or identity

Body image issues or societal pressure to look a certain way

Academic pressure or failing exams (to the point that you fake-graduated from High School and attending college with no success)

Fear of failure

Social anxiety in group settings

Criticism from peers, family, or authority figures

Betrayal by a friend or partner

Chronic illness or health diagnoses

Caregiving for a sick or elderly loved one

Post-traumatic stress from accidents or violence

Constant exposure to negative news or media

Fear of missing out (FOMO) from social media

Online harassment or cyberbullying

Comparison to others’ success or lifestyle

Lack of purpose or meaning in life

Moving to a new city or country

Cultural displacement or homesickness

Infertility or struggles with family planning

Parenting stress or feelings of inadequacy as a parent

Perfectionism and self-imposed pressure

Addiction (personal or in a loved one)

Legal troubles or lawsuits

Natural disasters or loss of home

Witnessing violence or tragedy

Survivor’s guilt after a traumatic event

Relationship conflicts or arguments

Feeling misunderstood or invalidated

Loss of personal autonomy or control

Workplace toxicity or harassment

Fear of aging or mortality

Unresolved grief or suppressed emotions

Chronic pain or disability

Identity crises or questioning self-worth

Lack of sleep or poor sleep quality

Overwhelming responsibilities or multitasking

Uncertainty about the future

Phobias or irrational fears

Feeling trapped in a situation (e.g., job, relationship)

Public speaking or performance anxiety

Loss of trust in institutions or authority

Political or ideological conflicts

Fear of being judged by others

Struggles with mental health disorders (e.g., anxiety, depression)

Lack of access to mental health resources

Social pressure to conform

Failure to meet personal goals

Rejection from a job or opportunity

Loss of a pet

Family dysfunction or estrangement

Guilt over past mistakes

Feeling overwhelmed by technology or information overload

Lack of work-life balance

Insecurity about physical appearance

Peer pressure in adolescence or adulthood

Fear of abandonment

Coping with a partner’s infidelity

Struggles with sexual orientation or gender identity

Pressure to succeed in competitive environments

Experiencing or witnessing injustice

Loss of a sense of safety or security

Financial debt or bankruptcy

Major life transitions (e.g., marriage, retirement)

Feeling unappreciated or undervalued

Coping with a loved one’s mental illness

Fear of global crises (e.g., climate change, war)

Lack of personal boundaries

Being ghosted or ignored

Struggles with addiction recovery

Feeling powerless in systemic issues

Religious or spiritual crises

Coping with miscarriage or pregnancy loss

Fear of vulnerability or intimacy

Being scapegoated or unfairly blamed

Chronic indecision or fear of making mistakes

Loss of a long-term dream or goal

Feeling disconnected from community

Parental pressure or expectations

Coping with a toxic friendship

Fear of being exposed as a “fraud” (imposter syndrome)

Lack of emotional support

Overexposure to violence in media or entertainment

Coping with a loved one’s incarceration

Feeling trapped by societal norms

Loss of cultural or personal traditions

Struggles with self-discipline or motivation

Fear of change or the unknown

Coping with a terminal illness (self or loved one)

Feeling overwhelmed by existential questions

How Does The California Primary/Actual Elections Work?

Primary election.  ALL candidates for a given office, regardless of party, appear on a single ballot for the primary. 

The top two vote-getters advance to the general election.  So if Democrat #1 and #2 have more votes than Republican #1....those two advance, and the Republican is NOT on the ballot in November.   

Reasoning? The state says this encourages broader voter participation and can lead to same-party matchups in heavily partisan areas like California.

General Election: A head-to-head runoff between the top two primary finishers. The winner is determined by plurality (most votes), with no runoff if no majority is required.

So for Porter (up until this week)....she figured that it'd be enough votes to spread around....where she would get votes...along with the second place Democrat....to edge out the Republican.

After the disaster of a interview....I'd say Porter lost easily lost 40-percent of her support for the primary.  The remaining  Democrats?  They have to now worry.....if they get into a bad interview.....will they destroy their odds.

This whole game built  to only have two Democrats in the November election?  Yeah, it's an odd way to build the system.