Just some general advice...if you have a problem, and some folks are giving you pretty stupid advice (which you quickly realize):
1. Politely thank the person for their input. Steer the conversation toward a more productive direction or your preferred approach.
2. Gently probe the reasoning behind their stupid advice to expose flaws or redirect focus without dismissing them outright.
3. Confidently state your intended course of action, framing it as a personal choice. Example: Remain respectful.
4. If the advice is unsolicited or irrelevant, simply nod while being stoic....smile, and change the subject or disengage.
5. Use light humor to diffuse the situation without engaging deeply. I'd refer to this method as the Hee-Haw solution.